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Drawing strength, guidance from Maya Angelou’s legacy

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Maya Angelou: “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” (Photo: mayaangelou.com)

by John Burl Smith —

(The day – April 4, 1968 – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. died in Memphis was Maya Angelou’s 40th birthday. That intersection was observed recently by social change advocate John Burl Smith, a former Memphis Invader, as he reflected on the 52nd commemoration of Dr. King’s assassination. He and fellow Memphis Invaders met with Dr. King a few hours before he was killed. In his forthcoming book, “The 400th” (1619-2019) From Slavery to Hip Hop),” Smith salutes Angelou – poet, singer, memoirist and civil rights activist – with this chapter (edited for presentation here) titled “Commemorating Another Who Has Passed On.”)

John Burl Smith

Though not planned in the way this narrative developed, yet I reach the end on another icon that is no longer with us. Marguerite Annie Johnson (4-4-1928/5-28-2014) is better known to her adoring and admiring fans as Maya Angelou. …

(H)er life was filled with far too many accomplishments to try and detail them here. … Mrs. Angelou enjoyed a beautiful life that included becoming a journalist in Egypt and Ghana, during the decolonization of Africa. She directed, as well as produced plays, movies, and public television programs in the late 1960s.

Then there is Broadway and her fight for human rights. Mrs. Angelou met novelist John O. Killens in 1959 and he convinced her to move to New York City, where she could concentrate and fully develop as a writer.

Maya Angelou said that for her Dr. King’s message of non-violence was like pouring water on a desert. (Photo: Twitter/TheRoot)

She joined the Harlem Writers Guild, where she met and worked with several major African American authors….In 1960, she met civil rights leader Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., and she and Killens organized the legendary “Cabaret for Freedom” to benefit the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC). Later, she was named SCLC Northern Coordinator.

While in Accra, Ghana, she became close friends with Malcolm X, during his visit in the early 1960s. When Mrs. Angelou returned to the US, she worked with Malcolm, as he began building his Black Nationalist organization, the Organization of Afro-American Unity (OAU), just before he was assassinated.

Maya Angelou and Malcolm X became close friends in Accra, Ghana and were working associates when he was assassinated. (Photo: Twitter/TheRoot)

Mrs. Angelou received dozens of awards and more than 50 honorary degrees before reaching the 1990s, where she, in 1993, recited her poem “On the Pulse of Morning” at Bill Clinton’s presidential inauguration. US President Barack Obama presented the Presidential Medal of Freedom (2011) to Mrs. Angelou.

Reading all her honors, one might think Mrs. Angelou lived a life of ease and gaiety however, that was definitely not the case. According to Mrs. Angelou, “I had many hard struggles, but that is life struggle.”

I first met Mrs. Angelou through “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings” (1969). I read that biography while in jail in 1971. I learned, as with so many black men and women detailed here, she was abused during childhood by her mother’s boyfriend. When she told her uncles, unlike many other abusers, later, the culprit was found dead. The rumor was the culprit had been kicked to death.

The boomerang for Maya was she became so frightened by the power of her words, at age eight; she became mute, refusing to speak for the next five years.

Again, like many other black children, including this writer, a concerned teacher found a way to draw her out of her closed off world. However, Mrs. Angelou’s influence did not end with her passing, the impact of her words continue reaching out from the grave, like a healing balm, to inspire today.

Consider this. I received a post on Facebook that illustrates her truly amazing power. The clip was posted by L. BrooklynPhenix Smith from Great Britain. While showing Meghan Markle’s courage facing her latest travails, including the backstabbing from the so-called British “royal circle,” the post featured Mrs. Angelou reciting her iconic poem “And still I Rise” (1978).

Brilliantly produced, the clip showed Mrs. Angelou giving a live performance interspaced with video clips of Meghan Markle, poised as always, going about her life with Harry and their baby. The post was accompanied by a Youtube.com piece entitled, “The Story about Maya Angelou that you have never heard in her own words!”

Mrs. Angelou’s message is not just for Meghan, but for all black women. Mrs. Angelou made the point in her poem and the video that, if you are a black woman and though you may be hated, verbally abused, attacked unjustly, ostracized and lynched upon the scaffold of ridicule, you should never feel alone or shame, because that has always been the lot of black women.

Black women can never afford to show weakness or to be fragile in the face of such assaults from those bent on their destruction. You must stand tall as a proud vessel of life. It is your beauty that drives those jealous of your femininity and womanly powers and strength that defies incredible odds to gain victory.

Mrs. Angelou’s clarion call is to stand forth when haters try to push you down, and even when they manage to cover you with their lies and plots, still as a black woman, you must rise!!!

That is the demand before all enslaved Africans descendants, women, and men. We must always reach deep to bring forth the self-love that got slavery’s descendants to “The 400th”.

Mrs. Angelou and Meghan Mackle were both touched by the Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade, which (for) Great Britain was a major pillow and its Crown rest atop the graves it filled with slaves. The attitude that supported that monster – slavery – still lives in the hearts of people who see former enslaved Africans as people they once owned. The world will never change if attitudes remain the same.

 (John Burl Smith began as a black power advocate in 1967 and now works for social change, social justice and other progressive causes. He is the author of the forthcoming book “The 400th” (1619-2019) From Slavery to Hip Hop.”)

 

Mother-son nonprofit looking to drive home Easter’s spirit

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Five-year-old Carl Grandberry V is at home with the Easter baskets set for special delivery. (Photo: Shauna Jones-Grandberry)

Child’s Dream International’s 2nd annual “Easter Basket Giveaway” is going forward – far from initially planned – with the goal of giving away 100 Easter baskets to “less fortunate children in our community.”

The five year old co-powering this deed is Carl Grandberry V. He and his partner-mother Shauna Jones-Grandberry have arranged to be on the old K-Mart parking lot on Austin Peay at noon Saturday morning (April 10) for a socially-distanced, drive-thru give away of Easter baskets.

Shauna Jones-Grandberry. (Screen capture)

Last year, the Child’s Dream nonprofit gave away 45 baskets on the campus of LeMoyne-Owen College. The 2020 growth plan targeted 100. The evening before distribution, baskets totaled 130 as donations still were being accepted. The growth plan hadn’t accounted for the level of generosity stirred during a pandemic.

Adjusting to mitigation measures in place to counter the spread of the coronavirus, Jones-Grandberry, Carl and Child’s Dream volunteers will dispense baskets and more via a drive-through operation. Some in need have called ahead. No reservations were required.

While the COVID-19 public health emergency has affected the giveaway in multiple ways, the idea’s roots are pre-pandemic and start with Carl, a Downtown Elementary School student.

“Well, this is something that he came up with on his own at age four,” Jones-Grandberry said. “Where it came from, I don’t know. It’s just something that he just up and said one day when he was outside playing.”

The “this” and “it” amounts to collecting toys and such “not for himself, but for less fortunate children in Memphis.” It has involved dipping into his allowance, money from family and friends and, increasingly, donations. From it has come events such as Christmas toy drives and the template Easter basket giveaway.

Jones-Grandberry manages the supply line, posting event solicitations online and strategically using donations to support the online workforce “like the young lady who was selling baskets. I didn’t go to your local Walmart or Kmart. They already have money. So what we did was supported the people who were trying to make extra money.”

Still, there is the coronavirus.

“People’s not even thinking about Easter and we’re still focused on it,” said Jones Grandberry. “We’re so focused on trying to make these children smile, knowing that they’re going to get an Easter basket.”

With resolve, she added, “I’m going to make a way. It’s going to happen…because this is something my son wants to do. … There’s people out there that are less fortunate and you have to be nice to them. Like I said, my son don’t like to see other kids sad. He wants them to have everything he has….(He’s) just learning how to share and give.”

Does he know about the virus?

“Yeah, he knows. Well, we talk about that every day,” she said. “We got all this different medicines and I’ve been to the grocery store. He’s sanitizing his hands more and washing his hands more and taking precautions on different things. He asks…and then he looks at the news. He’s five years old, acting like he’s 50.”

It’s not all business for five-year-old Carl. Shelter-in-place restrictions mean home is school. “We do (school) work every day. …It’s OK, because not only do we do papers ourselves that the teacher had sent home with him, he gets on ABCMouse(.com, a subscription-based digital education program) and i-Ready or something. I have to ask him. He knows more about it than I do. We just set aside time every day”

The physical activity Carl used to do in the gym, he now does at home, push-ups included.

“The only thing he’s doing differently than he did in school, in school they don’t watch TV. He gets to watch TV,” Jones-Grandberry said.

And, with Easter approaching, he’s gotten to amplify on his story to news media, including a telephone exchange with TSDMemphis.com.

Carl Grandberry V (Courtesy photo)

TSD: Hey, Carl, how are you doing?

Carl: Good.

TSD: Do you know what a newspaper is?

Carl: Hello? I can’t hear you!

TSD: I said, do you know what a newspaper is?

Carl: Yes.

TSD: Well, I run a newspaper and I want to put your story in it. How about that?

Carl: OK.

 TSD: You’re OK with that?

Carl: Yes.

TSD: Now, I understand you’re going to be helping children again for Easter. Is that right?

Carl: Yes.

TSD: OK. Well, why are you doing it?

Carl: Because I want kids to be happy and excited.

TSD: Yeah! So now, are you washing your hands?

Carl: Yes.

TSD: Yes! A lot, right?

Carl: Yes.

Carl Grandberry V has a book set to come out later this month.

It’s called “The Smile Collector.”

(For more information: visit https://bit.ly/3aThyXT, and A Child’s Dream International on Facebook. Click here to pre-order “The Smile Collector.”)

COVID-19’s heavy impact on African Americans probed

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Answering the call...Dr. Ydell Ismon Sr., one of the prayer chairmen for the Memphis Baptist Ministerial Association, prayed in place at Branch of Christ Church, where the Rev. James Morganfield Jr. is pastor, on Wednesday afternoon in keeping with the association's call for a day of prayer. He pastors Boston Baptist Church. (Photo: Tyrone P. Easley)

The suspicion that African Americans in Shelby County were being disproportionately hit by the spread of the coronavirus surfaced earlier, with concern mounting as data showed that such was the case in other metropolitan areas. Now there is local data – and confirmation.

The Shelby County Health Department released a demographic breakdown of some confirmed cases on Wednesday.

“Of the 267 cases we examined, 68 percent were African Americans, while 29 percent were white,” said Dr. Bruce Randolph, medical director for the Shelby County Health Department.

As of Wednesday, Shelby County had 897 confirmed cases of coronavirus, with 21 deaths. Fatality percentages were not yet available.

This week, concern about disparity accelerated nationally toward a clamor, with alarms sounded by the Congressional Black Caucus, the NAACP, the National Action Network and others. Dr. Benjamin F. Chavis, president/CEO of the National Newspaper Publishers Association, has declared a “State of Emergency for Black America.”

Those concerns confronted President Trump at Tuesday’s White House coronavirus update, with him alternately saying he was concerned, bewildered and that the results of more analysis were forthcoming.

Locally, activists have been viewing the Health Department’s ZIP code map and sounding alarms from multiple quarters about the fate of residents with historically poor access to healthcare.

Shelby County Medical Director Bruce Randolph: “We have the ability to improve our own health. The question is, ‘Do we have the will?’” (Courtesy photo)

“While I can’t attest to what has been happening in other areas around the country, I can say that we are committed to making sure Shelby County provides equitable opportunities for individuals in all geographical areas to be tested,” said Randolph.

The New Tri-State Defender participated in a Tuesday afternoon teleconference hosted by National NAACP President and CEO Derrick Johnson. He  called on elected officials to “ensure we are tested, treated, and protected to prevent further spread…and more loss of life in our communities.”

Late Wednesday afternoon, the City of Memphis-Shelby County COVID-19 Task Force announced that, with the help of several health providers, there would be new and expanded testing sites.

According to the media release, “The goal is test 1,000 people each day in addition to the tests already being performed at our local hospitals.”

Randolph, like other health officials, does not think that the coronavirus pandemic created disparity.

“First, we have to acknowledge that so goes healthcare, so goes economic development, education and every aspect of life,” said Randolph. “Healthcare is a reflection of the system as a whole. There is disparity in outcomes in every facet of our lives. Racism is a given. This is America, and it’s going to be there.”

Putting a finer point on the effects of racism, Randolph said “blacks of means who have insurance and access to good healthcare” have outcomes that tend to be the same as “their uninsured and poor counterparts.”

While inequality in healthcare exists, African Americans must find solutions within, he said.

“We must acknowledge our own responsibility in creating more positive outcomes,” said Randolph. “Dr. Martin Luther King said power is never given by the oppressor. We must struggle for it, work for it and demand it. When you are behind in a race, you must work harder and run faster to get the victory.”

Taking responsibility, he said, means being committed to following directions of personal physicians, adhering to the safety precautions put in place and taking full account of your own, personal health.”

Use must be made of the mitigation strategies put in place to curb the spread of COVID-19,” said Randolph, who has a private practice in preventive, family and occupational medicine.

“Prevent spread in the first place by avoiding crowds of more than 10 people. Stay at home because it is safer at home. Wear a mask every time you go out, and practice thorough and frequent hand-washing,” he said, wearing a mask.

Individual responsibility also involves taking control of diet and exercise, as well as following physicians’ orders in managing chronic conditions, such as heart disease, COPD, diabetes and renal failure, he said, listing obesity and smoking as additional factors.

While chronic illness is prevalent in the African-American community, Randolph said, “We have the ability to improve our own health. The question is, ‘Do we have the will?’”

A more complete demographic breakdown of COVID-19’s devastation in Memphis-Shelby County is projected to be available by Friday.

Below is a list of existing and new testing locations:

  • Church Health

Location: 1350 Concourse Ave.

By appointment only, call (901) 272-0003.

  • Memphis Health Center

Location: 360 E. H. Crump Blvd.

By appointment only, call (901) 261-2042

  • Tri State Community Health Center

Location: 1725 Pinebrook

By appointment only, call (901) 572-1573

  • Case Management, Inc.

Location: 3171 Directors Row

By appointment only, call (901) 821-5880 or email COVID-19TestCMI@cmiofmemphis.org

  • Christ Community Health Services

Location: 3362 S Third St.

By appointment only, Text “Test2020” to 91999

  • UT Drive-Through Testing @ Tiger Lane

Location: Midsouth Fairground

By appointment only, Text “covid” to 901-203-5526

 

Testing, testing, 123 – the basics from community level

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Christ Community Health Services, Inc. began coronavirus testing by appointment on March 21, among the first to do so in Shelby County. (Courtesy photo)
Dr. Reginique Green (Courtesy photo)

Dr. Reginique Green of Christ Community Health Services, Inc. openly values the flow of solid COVID-19 information, thinking that “we haven’t seen the worst of it” and knowing that “some people are still not believers.”

Models projecting how many people could die in Shelby County have included the mind-boggling total of 20,000 to far, far less yet still numbing figures. The date and extent of the projected surge also has varied, with the City of Memphis now reportedly looking at April 15 as the peak date for the coronavirus here.

That’s according to a model that suggests the peak gets here before it was projected earlier and that area hospitals would not be pushed beyond capacity. In conjunction with stay-at-home orders, frequent hand-washing and social distancing, testing is a huge part of the projection and preparation.

Testing 1,000 a people a day is the goal of the Memphis-Shelby County COVID-19 Task Force, whose mission includes putting together a testing strategy that makes more testing available to so-called vulnerable populations and under-served.

Green serves on the COVID-19 Task Force and is one of two people now handling coronavirus testing for Christ Community Health Services, Inc. (CCHS), one of the first to do so in Shelby County. Testing there is by appointment only, with Green adding that restriction is administered liberally.

“It is only by appointment because we want to create social distancing. We want to control the environment. We don’t want any densely populated areas. People are staying in their cars,” she said.

Signs of the time. (Photo: Karanja A. Ajanaku)

On Monday, CCHS increased its daily COVID-19 testing capacity to 200, up from 50 to 75.

“You lower your window and there’s very minimum chance of you contaminating or infecting anybody else, if you’re actually positive,” said Green, a graduate of Xavier University (undergrad) and Creighton University in Nebraska. “In order to be tested, you are screened and chances are you would be more likely to be positive than negative if you’re being screened.”

The test is serious business.

“So, you do have to stick a very, very tiny swab, much smaller than any Q-tip, 10 times smaller than a Q-tip in their nose, but you have to go all the way back to the back of their throat, what we call the pharynx. Folks call it nasal pharyngeal flap.”

Green said the nose route provides “a much better sampling.” Accounting for weekends and lab delays, results are being returned in 24 to 48 hours. Timing is essential in testing.

“What we’re trying to do is buy time until we have a cure or an immunization to give people. Really, were trying to quarantine everybody, but once you find someone who is truly having the disease, you don’t want to quarantine them, you want to isolate them.”

Quarantine involves taking a healthy person out of circulation so they don’t mix in the population and give or get the disease. If doctors suspect you have it, they’ll sometimes order medical quarantine, with calls to patients to check on their status. You can also self-quarantine for a variety of reasons, including when temperature readings suggest difficulty.

“But once you are truly positive for COVID-19, that is isolation,” said Green. “Isolation is when an unhealthy person stays away from healthy people. You would need to isolate even from the people in your home by wearing a mask and having something called a sickroom and wiping down all common surfaces.”

Severe cases can develop into pneumonia or respiratory failure, requiring ventilators and hospitalization.

CCHS started testing on March 21.

“We just felt like we needed to…. We bring quality healthcare to the underserved, under-resourced. We want to be sure that everybody has a right to healthcare…. When this happened and we couldn’t get the testing vials because of the limitations, we were like, ‘Oh, my gosh. The entire City of Memphis is under-resourced.’”

They designated 50 of the about 200 vials on hand for testing, “just believing in God that He was going to replace it and bring increase to us.”

Local protocol is to follow CDC guidelines for testing, with the priority being for hospitalized patients.

“The second priority now is actually healthcare workers with symptoms. But the problem has been the criteria,” Green said. “The screening criteria to have the test has been pretty high and we know that we were missing some people….

“Because of the scarcity of supplies – provider protective equipment, the gowns, the gloves, the mask, the shield and the types of vials that we needed to use to test – that is why we kept the criteria higher.”

After a day of testing by appointment at the CCHS location on Third St. (Photo: Karanja A. Ajanaku)

None tested by CCHS had died at the time of this interview. Green said some were hospitalized and “currently fighting for their lives. …

“I’ve always been a crier, and last night I cried just to release…. We take an oath to forestall death and it’s always hard to lose that battle…. It’s hard to lose one life, but when you just see about 300 people dying a day across the country in a different city, it’s overwhelming. It’s overwhelming!”

There is no one the CCHS will turn away, said Green. And if you don’t have a car to make use of drive-thru testing (by appointment), you can still be served.

“If you text Test2020 to 91999 and speak with the nurses…and say that you do not have a car and that you’re concerned, then we have social workers and we will make special arrangements for you. The drive-thru testing is just the safest because you keep your window rolled up until it’s time for the test. We put your paperwork on your windshield. It just provides the safest environment to practice social distancing.”

Since CCHS transitioned to testing with nasal pharyngeal swabs, Green and Dr. Ben Andrews have been doing the testing at the Third St. location. The goal is to identify others well-trained to do so and increase testing capacity, making it available in other much-needed areas of the city.

For frontline responders such as Green, doing their jobs is a labor of love performed mindful of their own families. She has four teenaged children and her parents are in their 80s.

“I bring my parents groceries. They have not left their home. I leave them on the porch. My mom and I talk through her window. I chat with her on the phone, but we can look at each other, because it’s through the window and it’s just because I’m in such a high-risk situation.”

As a member of the three-pronged COVID-19 Task Force, Green coordinates closely with the community group, which includes federally qualified health centers. Members have been meeting twice a week, working to develop strategies and plans to increase testing sites and access to testing throughout the city.

“I want you to know Memphis has a robust medical community, more resources than a lot of cities that I’ve ever lived in or known about,” she said.

Green is among those who have been working seven days a week. She took off Sunday and plans to do so on Good Friday.

“Our testing center is going to be closed and we’re going to just pray for Memphis at Christ Community.”

For self-employed, getting stimulus relief requires dogged pursuit

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People who work for themselves – those who file 1099s at tax time instead of W-2s – breathed a sigh of relief when President Donald Trump signed a $2 trillion stimulus package that included expanded unemployment benefits that would put $600 in their pockets. That was the good news.

The bad news: In addition to being overwhelmed with an unprecedented avalanche of new unemployment claims, the Tennessee Department of Labor and Workforce Development has no existing system for the self-employed to file for benefits – creating chaos, confusion and anxiety for thousands of citizens in need of some cash.

“The system for filing unemployment was not set up for those that are self-employed – and I understand that. I have no issue with that. I get it, ” said state Rep. Antonio Parkinson (Dist. 98 – Memphis), who has fielded numerous calls from constituents about the problems.

“The problem is that (Gov. Bill Lee) announced (the benefits) . . . and that lets everyone know that they can apply,” Parkinson continued. “Well, if they’re going to be able to apply, we need to be able to accommodate their applications.”

Data posted at jobs.tn.gov show that for the week ending March 14, 2,708 people applied for unemployment. But by March 28, an additional 133,588 claims had been filed statewide.

Regional data for the Greater Memphis area, which includes Shelby, Fayette, Tipton and Lauderdale Counties show that more than 12,000 applications had been filed in the week ending March 28. There’s no data posted on how many of those applicants are self-employed.

Currently, Tennesseans can file for unemployment benefits at www.jobs4tn.gov/vosnet.

A bright red banner at the top of the page reads:

“When completing this application please answer the questions to the best of your ability. In order to receive benefits, you must complete the entire process. If you are self-employed, a 1099 contractor or a gig worker, please complete the application and BE SURE TO ANSWER that you are self-employed when the question is asked. After you file your claim CERTIFY WEEKLY.”

Parkinson said he went through the application with a self-employed constituent, experiencing the confusion and frustration having the system deny a claim – leaving the applicant wondering if they’ve made an error on the application. Even a confirmation email would be nice, Parkinson said.

“What I’m being told by the Department of Labor is that, yes, when they apply, they may get a denial – but we are still processing their application,” he said. “Well, you need to communicate that to the applicant, and they haven’t done that . . . and some people are just giving up on this because it’s so cumbersome.”

Web traffic is part of the problem, said Labor commissioner Jeff McCord. In a Facebook Live Q&A with state Rep. Jeremy Faison, McCord said that whereas his office would ordinarily handle about 10,000 claims over a three-week period, the past three weeks have seen a 250,000 spike in applications. He said his office has added computer capacity and support staff to help manage the surge, but still advises anyone applying to do so after 7 p.m., when the site is less clogged.

McCord said that his office only recently got guidelines from the federal government on how to disburse the stimulus funds earmarked for the self-employed and aims to start processing the claims next week, after Easter.

“Our goal was to start processing those because we got the rules, and we’re programming the computers for the next payment cycle which will be next week,” McCord said. “We didn’t want to start in the middle of a payment cycle, so well begin to start that next week. And we think we can meet that goal.”

McCord also laid out how, unlike W-2 employers who pay into unemployment insurance on behalf of their employees, the self-employed don’t pay a “premium” for unemployment insurance. That’s why the system isn’t set up for their claims.

“That system doesn’t exist – nobody’s been paying unemployment insurance for you,” he said. “That’s where the federal stimulus comes in.”

Still, Parkinson is frustrated that there isn’t a separate system set up to handle the self-employed – especially since the state has budgeted hundreds of millions of dollars for emergencies such as this.

“I’m not understanding why we couldn’t set up a separate system for those that are self-employed, even if it’s just to get them on record for their application, and also get a response to them,” Parkinson said. “We’re basically talking about an online form, an application process.

“I do completely understand that we are in a special time where, you know, this is not the norm. I get that. I get that,”  Parkinson emphasized.

“But we need to think outside the box, come up with other strategies and other means of making sure that the people are actually getting served.”

How COVID-19 is disrupting My wedding planning

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Brianna A. Smith and Lorenzo Herman (fall 2019) (Photo: Ariel Cobbert)

My advice for navigating wedding planning during this unprecedented COVID-19 situation is to take a pause, don’t make any hasty decisions, and really think about what you value most for your wedding.

On March 20, exactly eight months until our destination wedding in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, my fiancé, Lorenzo Herman and I received a notification on our phones that the United States restricted nonessential travel to Mexico.

I was shaken, stunned, flabbergasted.

COVID-19 is affecting our wedding a tad bit differently than the other couples I wrote about.

Luckily, in January I said ‘yes to the dress’ and we had our site visit to Mexico in February.

However, finding bridesmaids gowns and accessories have become a hassle because many retailers in the United States import dresses from China, where the outbreak is said to have started and where many factories have been forced to close.

As a result, bridal stores have been struggling to source garments since the pandemic picked up and the safer-at-home order means that bridal stores, such as David’s Bridal have been ordered to close.

For a bride, groom or wedding planner, the challenge is every day that passes is a day closer to the special day. So, for people to have to sit tight or even try to plan for a pivot in the face of so much uncertainty is especially tricky.

Our wedding venue has temporarily closed, causing communication to be delayed.

“The shutdown of the venue is not ideal, but I understand the measure,” said Herman. “It puts me more at ease knowing that it has been shut down and it gives them time to clean, disinfect and change anything that needs to be changed prior to our wedding day.”

As a result of the coronavirus some of ours friends have been laid off from their jobs and now lack the financial resources to afford to attend our wedding. Many have had to renege.

Herman said, “Because some of our guests have been financially impacted it makes accounting for them difficult, the longer there is a safer-at-home order and things remain closed the longer our guests may not have the funds to afford to be in attendance by November.”

The most important factor right now is taking care of ourselves, our well-being and not putting our loved ones at risk.

We are staying calm and keeping faith that our big day will still happen as planned. There are too many uncertainties right now, and everyone is learning how to handle the situation to the best of their abilities.

Wedding day blues — adjusting to a pandemic

Tennessee Democratic Party removes Rep. DeBerry from ballot

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Former state Rep. John DeBerry is now a senior adviser to Gov. Bill Lee. (Photo: Screen capture)

The Tennessee Democratic Party voted to remove a state representative from the party’s primary ballot over allegations that he had Republican donor financing and voted contrary to the party.

Rep. John DeBerry Jr. was removed from the August 2020 primary ballot in a 41-18 vote with two abstentions, news outlets reported. DeBerry has served as a Memphis Democrat for 26 years.

An April 1 complaint challenged DeBerry’s status as a Democrat. The letter accused DeBerry of voting against his caucus’s position and receiving donations from organizations and individuals who typically support only Republican candidates.

“The Tennessee Democratic Party has decided that a 26-year representative that spent 12 years as a committee chairman … is no longer a Democrat. And so, I’m not,” he said.

DeBerry, an ordained Church of Christ minister, said he’s always maintained an anti-abortion position, noting that he’s “never tried to hide” his stance.

He voted in support of a controversial bill banning abortions after a fetal heartbeat could be detected, joining fellow Democratic Reps. John Mark Windle of Livingston and Joe Towns of Memphis in doing so.

DeBerry can appeal the vote. It’s unclear if he will.

John McFerren, dead at 95, fought for racial equality in Fayette County

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Described as one who could see the big picture, John McFerren never wavered in pursuit of racial equality. In the video from which this image was captured, he extolled the importance of economic independence in achieving racial equality. (Screen capture from video posted by the Benjamin L. Hooks Institute.)

John McFerren, a key civil rights warrior in Fayette County, Tenn. during the 1960s died from natural causes April 4.

His death occurred on the 52nd commemoration of the assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. in Memphis.

McFerren was born in Somerville, the Fayette County seat, on Oct. 28, 1924, to Eugene and Estella McFerren, the fifth of six children.

In the summer of 1959, McFerren decided to commit his life to equality and racial justice.

After attending the trial of Burton Dodson, an African-American accused of killing a white deputy in a 1940 shootout, McFerren started a voter registration drive.

Dodson couldn’t be judged by a jury of his peers because few blacks were on the voter rolls, and only voters could sit on a jury. Many believed he was innocent.

Although Fayette County was 70 percent African-American, a small ruling class of white landowners had controlled the majority for generations. McFerren and other activists launched a massive voter registration drive to register African Americans.

This led to organized retaliation by Fayette County whites against McFerren, his family, fellow activists and sharecroppers on the farms of white landowners.

“When I was born, the movement had already started, and both my father and mother were deeply involved,” said Daphene R. McFerren, McFerren’s daughter, and executive director of the Benjamin L. Hooks Institute for Social Change at the University of Memphis.

“That’s just how it was. We knew that we were sharing our parents with many people. As children, we didn’t feel neglected. My father was bigger than life and big enough to share.”

Whites retaliated against the movement by evicting African-American sharecroppers in December, 1960. McFerren set up army tents for the evicted families on land owned by two African-American farmers.

This “Tent City” housed these families until it was disbanded in April, 1963. But the nation and the world scrutinized Fayette County for its voter suppression and inhumane treatment of African Americans.

On November 16, 1959, the U.S. Department of Justice Civil Rights Division filed a lawsuit against the Fayette County Democratic Executive Committee to stop it from suppressing the African American vote in the primaries.

It was the first case in the nation to be filed under the 1957 Civil Rights Act.  Later, the Justice Department obtained relief from the federal court to prevent white landowners from evicting African- American sharecroppers because they registered to vote.

“I believe that some people are born to see the big picture,” McFerren said. “For my father, his responsibility was far greater to just his family. It was to his people as well.

“I remember one time, my father was beaten up really badly because he wouldn’t stop his civil rights activities. My uncle took him to the hospital. When he came home, I could tell he had been beaten badly. But nothing ever stopped him.

“When others were beaten, my father would have my mother drive them to the hospital in Memphis where blacks could go. They saw the big picture. That is now my perspective. I see the big picture.”

McFerren and wife, Viola H. McFerren, opened McFerren’s Grocery and Oil Company to provide food, gasoline, and other services. It was open for more than 50 years, on Highway 195.

His brick structure was the central meeting place for student activists, civil rights workers, and labor unions. Protest marches would start there and end at the Fayette County Courthouse.

McFerren was a World War II veteran.  He was preceded in death by his oldest son, John McFerren, Jr., and ex-wife, Viola.

He is survived by four children: Jacqueline McFerren, Claudia McFerren-Jones, Daphene R. McFerren and Harris N. McFerren.

 

Online tributes, expressions of sympathy pour in for Herman Strickland Jr., 60

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Herman Strickland Jr. was a deacon at The New Olivet Worship Center in Cordova, where he was known to walk his faith (Courtesy photo)

“…One of my church members and friend, Herman Strickland Jr., died yesterday, and it shook me to my core. He was a great Christian brother who loved his wife and two daughters…a kind and loving man. He will never be forgotten but truly missed.” – Dwayne A. Jones, friend


 

Herman Strickland Jr. (Courtesy photo)

The First Baptist Church on Kitchen Street posted on its Facebook wall:

“It is with deep sadness to inform you that Bro. and Sis. Strickland’s son, Herman Strickland Jr., passed away this morning. Please pray for the family during this difficult time for strength, comfort, and understanding.”

Strickland, a long-time Memphis banker known for his civic and professional efforts to boost African-American communities and Memphis, died April 5. He was 60.

This past Sunday, Strickland, a longtime deacon, was scheduled to lead the prayer during online services at New Olivet Worship Center in Cordova.

In stunning and dramatic fashion, he was heard praying at the appointed time.

Members of the congregation and visiting friends watching the online service posthumously heard Strickland’s voice, praying for the last time.

He had sent the 10-minute pre-recorded prayer to his pastor, Dr. Kenneth T. Whalum Jr., earlier in the week.

“…Help us to endure, Lord. Please help us to stay as safe as we possibly can, Lord. Help us to get through this…”

The words from Strickland’s recording were striking in the solemn moment of corporate prayer.

Strickland was a senior vice president and credit officer for Pinnacle Financial Partners in Memphis. His stellar career unfolded at First Tennessee Bank (now First Horizon), where he worked for 34 years.

When he left First Horizon, he was head of the diversity banking group. He joined Pinnacle in 2015.

With all Strickland’s accolades and board memberships, Whalum said the banker was most impressive in his love for God.

“I knew him for 30 years, and he was a true worshipper,” said Whalum. “Every Sunday morning before service began, you would find Herman lying prostrate on the altar, unashamed of his relationship with God. It was an unapologetic show of humility and meekness in a man of his stature. What an example for our young people.”

Strickland and his wife, Rhonda Strickland, ran New Olivet’s married couples’ ministry for 10 years. He was also involved in the Rights of Passage Ministry, a program for the guidance and mentoring of young men.

Strickland earned a bachelor’s degree in business management from Arkansas State University management and a master’s degree in finance from the University of Memphis. He also graduated from the Darden School of Commercial Lending, University of Virginia.

Strickland was a former instructor at the Barret School of Banking at Christian Brothers University. He served on numerous boards throughout his career, among them the Memphis Urban League, Leadership Memphis, Community Lift and the Benjamin L. Hooks Institute for Social Change, University of Memphis.

R.S. Lewis and Sons Funeral Home has charge of services.

The visitation, which is from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. today (April 10) at R. S. Lewis at 2944 Walnut Grove Rd., is open to the public. The funeral service set for Saturday (April 11), also at the Walnut Grove location, is restricted to family members only.

Baptist ministers group leads day of prayer

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Three hundred pastors and clergy of The Memphis Baptist Ministerial Association have called for a day of prayer today “to help us as we struggle with our current state of affairs that encompasses planet earth.”

The plan notes noon today (April 8) as the starting point, with all religious leaders, lay persons, non-clergy and all people of faith invited to participate.

Pastors, ministers and religious leaders were asked to pray from their place of worship.

“As you kneel, remember ‘prayer is the sincere desire of the heart unuttered or expressed.’ Let us pray for our doctors, nurses, medical workers, patients, first responders and all of those  on the front line of battle,” the ministers said in a release about the effort.

A goal of the day is ongoing prayer for “our city, state and country that God will heal the land.”

The ministers emphasized their intention to (follow the guidelines of our Congressman, Governor and Mayor” and not congregate, choosing to “pray wherever you are at the above time.”